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Dear  Mrs Double-Glazing

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Dear  Mrs Double-Glazing

We all love our children and want the best for them, that seems perfectly natural and laudable to me. I have to draw your attention to one thing though. There’s an old arabic saying, ‘Every beetle is a gazelle in the eyes of its mother’; but when you teach 200 children and look after a tutor group with all the pastoral responsibilities that brings, from a teacher’s view many a gazelle can feel like a beetle!

In state education, we teach everyone and anyone. I now appreciate and am grateful to private education like never before for taking away from me, people who generally feel they deserve a bigger slice of the pie.

 

 

Here is a series of e-mails that have been exchanged over the last six months between myself and a very caring but over protective parent about her daughter. Bless her!

All names and personal details have been changed.

From: Caroline Double-Glazing [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]v

Date: 08 September 2014 21:04

Subject: Re Phoebe’s maths group

Dear Mrs Butler,

I am writing to you as we have exchanged conversations on how well Phoebe is doing in maths. Phoebe was really upset when she came home today, about ending up in Set Two for maths. My husband and I were are quite bewildered and shocked.

On every report since Year 7, she achieved the higher level on maths. In Year 7 she got the Silver in the National Maths Challenge. When she returned in Year 9 she did well in her entrance test and was put straight into the top set. Last Term she reached 7b. Exceeding  expectations in this subject and has received a certificate of achievement in Maths. She was so encouraged she already decided to take maths at A level, at 6th Form College. We were going to ask you about extra tuition in Year 11 to ensure she reaches a Grade A.

Maths is her best chance of getting an A and she is prepared to work. What has happened? She really needs to be in the top set with her clever friends who have a good influence on each other. Was this a clerical error? I know it must be difficult to try and fit everyone in but this is the worst possible start for Phoebe’s GCSE years..   Was this move because of her other options?

We will do anything to help Phoebe get back to the top set. Please just let us know what we can do. The quicker she is re-instated the quicker she can get on with her learning in a happier frame of mind.

We hope you can look in to this for us.

Thank you,

Caroline Double-Glazing.

 




From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 11 September 2014 10:08
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Letter
Dear Mr Walker,
I am wondering if you have received my letter Re Phoebe?
She is not aware that I contacted you, if we could keep it between ourselves. Thanks.
She did talk to me about maths lessons and said she enjoys working with Vicky Parks as the two were in top set last year and are both keen to get on.
She also mentioned that there were some chatter boxes who can be distracting which I thought supports the theory that she just wants to stay focussed.
Good Luck!
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

 

 

 

 

On 23 September 2014 09:34, Walker J <JWalker@bogcomp.shire.sch.uk> wrote:
Hello Mrs Double-Glazing
Apologies for not replying earlier to the letter you sent me, this is the first time I’ve had to draw breath. Phoebe has made a very good start to the year, I’m very pleased with her attitude and commitment to do well. Higher level maths is a big step up and I want to impress on all year 10 students to be prepared to constantly practise the topics we are covering.
I pride myself that I am very proactive in contacting parents throughout Year 10 and 11. I have got into the routine of e-mailing to all parents, schedules of extra revision classes, exam (mock) timetables and general advice. (I might say sometimes, generally to little response)
My main reason for writing is to lay the foundations of selected pupils in this ‘quasi’ higher set having the opportunity to do an additional GCSE Statistics this year. I intend to offer extra lessons after school one night a week later on next term. The course comprises a coursework component, done in the Spring, and a written exam in June 2015. Some pupils will perhaps justifiably consider for their career choice they don’t need to do this course while others are not capable.
I think Phoebe would do very well in this GCSE and I would like her to do it.
I’m interested to hear your views on this.
Kind regards
John Walker

 

 

 

 

 From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 5 November 17:08
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Letter
Dear Mr Walker,
Sorry to bother you over a trivial matter but it is to do with a change of seating. Phoebe works well with Vicky Parks and they were together in Mrs Butler’s class last year.
Up until today they were sat next to each other in your maths class. For some reason, Hannah decided she wanted to sit with Vicky and Phoebe had to move.
Would you be able to discretely move everyone to the same seats as last half term>?
Again sorry to bother you with this but my first concern is for Phoebe’s progress.
Thank you
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

 

 

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 21 November 2014 16:25
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Target grade
Oh dear, Phoebe was so pleased with herself at the beginning of term when she was getting A for homework. Is the B for her Target Grade an indication that she is slipping? We had hopes for Phoebe and Maths. To make sure we see you on the 10th I have booked you for 4pm and maybe we can see the areas where Phoebe needs to work on to get back into A.
Thank you,
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

On 26 November 2014 at 15:32, Walker J <JWalker@bogcomp.shire.sch.uk> wrote:

Dear Mrs Double-Glazing

In my humble opinion, Phoebe has not slipped at all this term, the contrary. Her FFT target grade is an ‘A’ grade and she has made an excellent start towards securing that attainment. It would be a major surprise to me if she doesn’t get an ‘A’ or perhaps higher next year. She is very conscientious, hard-working in class and diligent in doing practice at home.As to the marking of work, If the questions are answered perfectly for homework, (and they are often past paper questions) I don’t see why a pupil shouldn’t receive an A and lower accordingly as appropriate to the quality of the solutions offered. That doesn’t mean that a pupil can master all the topics of a higher syllabus to that standard (A), yet, but just in this narrow margin of assessment, it is top marks.
I gave my Year 10 sets early on in the course, an actual past paper before half term to give them a taste of what’s in store. We trialled doing this last year instead of giving topics tests which tell us nothing. Phoebe scored 39% (C+) which is pretty good considering half the paper we haven’t done yet. Since then we have covered the topics from the 2nd half of the paper and I think she is capable of achieving at least 50% on the paper which is why I grade her to be a ‘B’, at this present time. If this same progress is maintained, she could be working at ‘A’ standard by the end of the year.
    Hope this helps
John Walker

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 27 November 2014 11:37
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Target grade
You are so kind Mr Walker. Thank you for taking the time to explain things to me. I will show Phoebe this e mail and I am sure she will be delighted and reassured.
She also has a twin who is flying high at <local private school>, which doesn’t help! Once again, thank you for your most helpful e-mail.
Caroline Double-Glazing
From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 05 January 2015 19:32
To: Walker J
Subject: Re GCSE Statistics
Dear Mr Walker,
I hope you had a good break over Christmas? Just a quick question, the after school lessons, will they start this Thursday, 8th or next Thursday 15th?
Thank you
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 02 February 2015 14:18 To: Walker J
Subject: Missed Maths Lesson Today

Dear Mr Walker,

Phoebe went on the trip to Grimsby University today and will miss her maths lesson. Will she be able to catch up tomorrow or would you like to send some homework for her to do tonight? On Thursday 12th March  Phoebe will be in a North Shire Netball Tournament.Is there any possibility she can see you Friday 13th about the work she will miss? It is very important to Phoebe that she gets a high mark as is possible for her course work.
Thank you for your help
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 09 February 2015 10:09
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Statistics Homework
Dear Mr Walker,
Thank you for your most helpful outline. Phoebe may come and find you to make sure she is on the right track.
She chose Winter Olympics, Ice Skating and collected the data to show which Country performs best by displaying all the data in different ways and finding average scores. Can you steer her in the right direction?
I can get graph paper or anything she needs to make charts, even A3 graph paper to put all the data to see at a glance and compare. Am I giving her the right support?
Thank you
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

 

 

 

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 04 March 2015 08:01
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Statistics

 Dear Mr Walker,

I’m very pleased with the amount of time Phoebe spent on her work yesterday, starting from downloading data in her lunch break and putting it together in her presentation folder last night. She did explain that it must be very difficult for you running two groups and so she feels reluctant to ask for help.She downloaded information on “Standard deviation and Variance”, in her file but if you could explain the equation and symbols as I am sure you are better than me!
Thank you Mr Walker.
Caroiline

 

 

 

 

 

 

On 4 March 2015 at 08:15, Walker J <JWalker@bogcomp.shire.sch.uk> wrote:

It takes a long time and a big effort to really get going on this project but I feel yesterday was a breakthrough. Phoebe should have no worries about asking me anything at any time. I am doing standard deviation  on Thursday, I had always planned to do standard deviation this Thursday.
Can I assure you I have got everything in hand about what needs to be introduced, and when.
John Walker

 

 

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 04 March 2015 09:27
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Statistics
Thats great, thank you.
Phoebe is very shy and she would be mortified if she knew I contacted you.
She really does enjoy working in a small group in your Thursday classes and I’m pleased to say the netball tournament has been moved to Wednesday next week and of course that means she won’t miss next Thursday.
You have done a great job with Phoebe, as I could see last night when she spent two hours on her project.
She tries so hard to please her teachers. She got an A* in her Chemistry test last week so fingers crossed for maths.
Best wishes,
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

 

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 25 March 2015 15:47
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Orthodontist appointment
Dear Mr Walker,
Phoebe has to have her 6 week appointment at the Orthodontists tomorrow at 2.30pm in Chigley. I tried to have it done during the holidays but he will be having two weeks off with his children and this is our last chance.
She is now talking about a test. Is this a Statistics test? Could she complete it at home On Show My Homework during the holidays?  I know she will have a maths lesson with you first thing if you could have a word with her.
There is always two events at the same time! and I am sorry to be taking her out.
Kind regards,
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 27 March 2015 09:37
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Coursework

Dear Mr Walker,
Phoebe has been really poorly with a sore throat these past few days, gradually getting worse. She shouldn’t be in school today but insisted as there was a big Chemistry test.I have her course work here. Would you like to see it as it is and make sure she is on the right track and I can bring it in today or would you prefer she finishes properly and then hand it in. All the graphs, charts and hypotheses have been done. It is just the labelling of all the graphs and charts and stating why she is using them and then the conclusion.What would you advise me to do?
Thank you
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 21 April 2015 16:14
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Results

Dear Mr Walker,
I felt sorry for Phoebe tonight, she came so upset and disappointed over her 9/20 result.
Apparently, as soon as the test finished she realised she dropped 3 marks over a mistake she knew the right answer to. She also had very bad stomach pains that day and would have come home but of course she couldn’t.
I understand the course work will be part of her final GCSE  mark but was this test also part of her GCSE mark? How will it work? If that is the case she must work extra hard to get a decent grade now? Such a shame as she grasped all the course work so quickly and was helping a few of her friends. We were secretly hoping she will end up with a decent grade. so if there is any advice you can give that would be so helpful.
Thank you

 

 

 

 

 

From: Caroline Double-Glazing  [mailto:caroline.doubleglazing@gmail.com]
Sent: 22 April 2015 07:24
To: Walker J
Subject: Re Coursework improvements

Dear Mr Walker,
I am very concerned about the knock in Phoebe’s maths confidence after receiving her results.yesterday. She must have been having a bad day.
If it is impossible for some pupils to resit the test, please can she at least have her course work back to make improvements and do the Spearman’s Rank diagram that she was supposed to do and perhaps gain a few more marks before she goes into the exam?
Please look at any possibilities of a few more marks from somewhere.
Thank you,
Caroline Double-Glazing

 

 

 On 22 April 2015 at 15:23, Walker J <JWalker@bogcomp.shire.sch.uk> wrote:
Dear Mrs Double-Glazing
I have spoken with Phoebe today. The 9/20 was a disaster and a great shame as Phoebe has worked so hard on her project. It can’t be re-sat. If Phoebe were to improve the write-up of her sampling procedure she could perhaps attain 2 more marks for that component of the project. That would bring her up to to 27/40 = 13.5/20 = 6.75/10  = 67.5% for the coursework component (worth 25%) of her GCSE Statistics course. That’s good enough to achieve any grade with a good written exam in the summer.
Hope this helps to allieviate the pain
John Walker

 

 

Dear Mrs Double-Glazing, we all love our children…..

February 28, 2016

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